10 Signs They Are Going To Propose

If you're in a long-term relationship, you're likely thinking, "When will they propose?" To get engaged is such an exciting and special moment you and your partner will cherish for the rest of your lives.

But let's answer the question: Are they getting ready to propose? They could be, and here are a few common signs you might be about to get engaged!

When Will They Propose?

The prospect of your partner getting ready to propose is exciting yet overwhelming. For an engagement to happen, both parties must be happy, comfortable, and ready to commit.

It's been shown that, on average, in the US, most couples wait around 2.5 years before getting engaged. Studies from Emory University have also shown those who waited for three years or more in a relationship before getting married had a 50% less chance of divorce.

So, if it's around this time frame, a proposal could be on the cards, but you never know; some people propose to each other even after just a few months of dating if they know they've found 'the one.'

Let's not be too quick to rule out a proposal just because of an average timeline; in reality, there's no specific time your partner will propose; it will be when the time 'feels right,' and that's what makes it so special.

10 Sure Signs They Are Going To Propose

Let's get to the juicy part you've been waiting for the 10 signs they will propose.

1. A Sudden Interest In Your Jewelry Or Rings

The most common tell-tale sign she or he will propose is when they ask about what jewelry you like, or you might even find them going through your jewelry box. Choosing a ring can be a big deal for your partner, so you'll probably find them going through different jewelry sites for hours, asking your friends, and visiting jewelry shops to find you the ideal ring (what we do for love, hey?). If they are crafty, they might even ask your friends to ask you what your favorite rings are.

2. They Are Talking About The Future More

Finding that your partner is talking more about marriage, kids, or buying a house could be a sign they are going to propose. Not only is this a sign you could be getting engaged soon, but it also shows they consider you as part of their future.

3. They Are Acting Nervous

Strange or different behavior from your partner shows they might be hiding a secret; trust your partner since this could be an engagement on the horizon. They could be acting nervous around you or freaking out when someone brings up the subject of marriage.

4. You Have An Unexpected Romantic Trip Coming Up

People often see a romantic break as a great chance to propose to their loved one; who wouldn't like getting engaged abroad, right? So, expect anything if your partner suddenly suggests they want to go on holiday as just the two of you. You might be returning with a sparkly souvenir!

5. Your Family Is Acting Different

Most partners ask for approval of the engagement or even help planning it from the other half of the family. If you find your sibling or mother is acting a little more emotional than usual, this may be a hint they could be hiding a proposal. Try not to ask; otherwise, they might crack and ruin the surprise!

6. You Have A Birthday Or Engagement Coming Up

Occasions like Christmas, anniversaries, and birthdays are common times people often propose. Get those nails manicured and choose a great outfit because it could be the time for a double celebration.

7. Your Intuition Is Saying Yes

Trust your gut, also known as your intuition. We often know our partners inside out after being with them for a few years. When you know, you know. Try not to stress over whether it's going to happen or not, and trust the process will unfold naturally.

8. They Are Being Tighter With Their Finances

We all know engagement rings don't come cheap, so if your loved one starts cutting back on his or her spending, or you guys perhaps aren't going on as many dinners out or weekends away, then this could be a sign they are saving for an engagement ring.

9. They Are Hiding Their Phone From You

Your partner could be more secretive with their phone for many reasons, but one could be that she or he is getting ready to propose to you. There could be plenty of messages about rings, calls to jewelry shops, or photos on his or her phone they don't want you to see.

10. They Are Catering To Your Needs

They put the toilet seat down, fold the clothes, and offer to cook. Of course, a proposal doesn't mean it should change how your partner acts, but they probably want to prove they are domesticated enough to start a future with you and have a family.

3 Tips For Getting Engaged

Okay, you think the proposal is happening, so what do you do? Well, first, don't say anything and try to keep it a surprise! If your partner has been planning this for a while, the last thing you want to do is ruin the special day. Also, be prepared that it might not happen, but that doesn't mean you won't be getting engaged in the near future. We recommend doing the following for some engagement prep if you're sure it's going to happen soon.

1. Manage Your Nerves

If you think you are about to get engaged, manage your anxiety. The last thing you want is for you to start acting weird, too, and then it will raise suspicions that you know about the proposal. Try to act like you don't know anything.

2. Trust It Will Go To Plan

It can be so tempting to want to help your partner pick the right ring or the right place to get engaged but you want to avoid doing so. Instead, trust that everything will unfold how it's meant to.

2. Get Those Nails Done

If you get proposed to, those nails need to be looking good, and even if you don't, you get a manicure, so it's a win-win situation.

Can I Propose to My Partner?

If you're waiting on your partner to propose, and it's not happening, and you suspect it's not going to happen anytime soon, then you might be wondering, can I propose to my partner? Proposing to your significant other is 100% something you can do, so why not?

Some partners might want to be the one to propose, so it might be worth bringing it up casually in a conversation about how they would feel if you were to propose to them.

If you want ideas on how to propose to your partner, check out our ideas here!

Getting Engaged - What's Next?

So, let's fast forward; you get engaged (hopefully); now, what's next?

That's where we come in, to take all the wedding stress away so you can focus on enjoying your engagement and future marriage plans. At Wedgewood Weddings & Events, we are a team of wedding wizards and experts who help plan your wedding venue with you and all the essential elements, from DJs to tabletop centerpieces.

So, why not get ahead and have a sneak peek at our venues here before getting engaged? We promise we won't tell anyone!